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The Everyday Wisdom Newsletter, Issue #007 - Building and Maintaining Relationships.
January 31, 2008

The Everyday Wisdom Newsletter

In This Issue:

  • The Law of Attraction - Do you know what the two primary components to look for when choosing a mate?

  • Dealing With Anger. - 6 ways to deal effectively with anger.

  • Grading a Diamond. - Know how to grade a diamond will help you get your money's worth.

  • Humor - More great humor taken from our website.

With Valentines day approaching, we thought it would be good to have information on forming relationships, help in maintaining relationships, and for those people at the point of buying a diamond ring, we have information on how to grade a diamond.

There will be some brief ideas in each category followed by a link to an article on that goes into more detail.

The Law of Attraction

Do you know what the two primary components to look for when choosing a mate? Most people don't think in those terms, but it will help you determine who is right for you and who isn't right for you. The two components are common vales and physical chemistry.

Physical chemistry is easy to determine. You're either physically attracted to the person or you're not. Everyone senses physical chemistry instantly. It's the second component people ignore from time to time. After all, the physical chemistry can overpower the search for common values. But here's the key...for a happy relationship, you need both. Physical chemistry can only carry you so far. Long term, common values are what will determing the length of a relationship.

One way to show you're attracted is through flowers.

click here for Romantic Flowers

For more information on the law of attraction in finding the right person, Click here.

Dealing With Anger

So now you've found the person that's right for you using the Law of Attraction. Everything will now go smoothly and you'll live happily ever after. That only happens in fairy tales.

You'll have your ups and downs just like everyone else. The ups will pretty much handle themselves. Let's talk about one of the downs of life - dealing with anger.

We have an article on our website titled "Here are six ways to deal with anger and rage from a person you are in a relationship with." In the article we say, "If the bad feelings and rage were to happen only once, that would be one thing. But for many people, it happens over and over again." If you are in that kind of relationship, the ideas in this article can make a difference in your relationship and your life.

For more information on dealing with anger, Click here.

How To Grade a Diamond.

Let's say you're in a situation where the Law of Attraction has worked for you, the relationship is going well,'s time to buy a diamond ring. Do you know what to look for? You want to get the most for your money. How do you do that. Answer...a little knowledge about how diamonds are graded can go a long way to getting you what you want.

After all, Valentines Day is fast approaching. Maybe now is a good time to move the relationship to the next level.

The key to understanding how to grade a diamond is summed up in "The Four C's." The four C's are, Carat Weight, Clarity, Color, and Cut. You'll read much more about that in the article on our website. Before I give you that link, here is a link to Jewelry Television. A great resource to buy diamonds and other gems and jewelry.

click here daily jewelry specials at

For more information on how to grade a diamond, Click here.

In a minute you'll be reading this month's humor and I think you'll get some good laughs from it. But first, there's a service we've discovered that appropriate to talk about when talking about relationships. How would you like to have a physical card sent out that you were able to customize in minutes, have it stuffed in the envelop for you, have a stamp put on and mailed for you for less than the cost of a card alone, with no postage, from a card shop or pharmacy?

It exists. We've been using it for months and couldn't be happier with it. Thousands of cards to choose from and you can customize them.

I'm going to give you a link to the site in a second. When you go there, you'll see a red horizontal line with links in it. One of them links to a page with videos so you can learn more about the service. The link says "Watch our DVD." I recommend you look it it.

Here's a link to the website of the card service company:

click here.

If you see you're interested in the service and want to know more, we've become experts on it. Just let us know by filling out the form at our contact us page. Here's a link to our contact us page:

click here to contact us.

Now...on with the humor.


We include some humor in every newsletter. It good for your health, mind and spirit.

On the website, we now have many categories of funny but clean humor including:

This month's humor:

These are the unavoidable laws of the natural universe...

Law of probability: The probability of being watched is directly proportional to the stupidity of your act.

Law of Mechanical Repair: After your hands become coated with grease your nose will begin to itch or your phone will ring.

Law of the Workshop: Any tool, when dropped, will roll to the least accessible corner.

Law of the Telephone: When you dial a wrong number, you never get a busy signal.

Law of the Alibi: If you tell the boss you were late for work because you had a flat tire, the very next morning you will have a flat tire.

Variation Law: If you change lines (or traffic lanes), the one you were in will start to move faster than the one you are in now. (works every time).

Bath Theorem: When the body is fully immersed in water, the telephone rings.

Law of Close Encounters: The probability of meeting someone you know increases when you are with someone you don't want to be seen with.

Law of the Result: When you try to prove to someone that a machine won't work, it will.

Law of Biomechanics: The severity of the itch is inversely proportional to the reach.

Law of Dirty Rugs/Carpets: The chances of an open-faced jelly sandwich of landing face down on a floor covering are directly correlated to the newness, color and cost of the carpet/rug.

Law of Location: No matter where you go, there you are.

Law of Logical Argument: Anything is possible if you don't know what you are talking about.

Wilson's Law: As soon as you find a product that you really like, they will stop making it.

Finally in this issue of the newsletter…

I want to include a quote that has helped millions of people throughout the world. I believe if you will develop the skill of putting this quote into practice, it will help you immensely in reducing the stress you feel from life.

Here’s the quote:

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
Wisdom to know the difference.

Don't forget to tell your friends about

I wish you all the best.

Till next time,

Ed Kalski
Senior Editor

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